Lately, I've heard and experienced (at least one encounter) girl friends telling me about their horrific stories regarding guys who try a bit too hard. First, there's the stereotypical SPAM (super passive Asian males) guys, then there's the "men" | h, and now, there comes the opposite of SPAM! I've always had respect for guys who state their intent with a girl instead of playing games, but then there have been guys that take it a notch higher.
When a girl says "no, I'm not interested" and brings a friend along to make it a non-date, I think a guy should get the hint that hey, maybe she's really just not interested, yeah? Now I'm hearing stories about how a guy becomes extra mushy and baby goochie-goochie-gooey to the girl they're interested in. Now do they actually think that attracts a girl? Cause honestly, I believe it does the opposite.
So maybe playing it natural, being their friend... would that be the next best move if a girl says she's not interested? Is less really more in this situation?
Guys... a complicated species indeed. Luckily for me, I'm just listening to these amusing stories and having a laughs of my own. Good thing I snatched the best guy out there and don't have to worry about SPAMs, "men"|h, and SAMS (super agressive males).
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