As a kid, you were not allowed to say the "F" word, no matter how mad you were about something. Nowadays, I've been saying the "F" word a lot, but not THAT one - the "F" fiance word. Many of times, I have heard that many guys have ulterior motives. No guy wants to be "just friends" with you... yeah, it was a bit hard to grasp... till now. I believe many Asian guys are quite passive and love this whole being in the friend's zone, thinking that one day, when they express their undying love to you, you will fall to your knees and hook up with them. That, my friend, is myth #1... do not believe in it. Like guys, girls are shallow as well. If you're a good looking guy who professed your love, heck yeah, it'll probably do you well. However, if you're some bufugly looking guy who does the same thing, good luck, buddy.
Anyway, back on topic... I have noticed an even bigger decline in the male population taking an interest in my every day life ever since I said the "F" word to them. What gives?
Case #1: Random dude on Yelp befriends me and starts messaging me... being the nice person that I am, I reply back blah blah blah... it wasn't till I said life was busy, and his question, "with what?" till all communication dropped. I told him I was busy planning my wedding (actually, I guess I never directly said the "F" word to him) and all communication has been dropped. wewt~
Case #2: Acquaintance of mine, who was pretty chatty with me for a while always asked me what's going on... when I told him I have a bf, communication lessened a bit... when the "F" word was brought up, good bye "friend". wewt~
So to all my true blue guy buddies who are still friends with me after I "F"-ed you out, thank you!
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